like of course i’m going to be defensive and mean if every conversation i have with you is you coming at me in a way that comes across as a lecture or criticism. you never talk to me unless it’s to do one of these things and yes i’m a fucking human i start getting conditioned to respond a certain way
@John unfortunately it’s not that easy. i’m in an organization with this person and am expected to work with them and even approach them for guidance
@lids but i mean, you can't let it define you - everyone has their own standard and theirs isn't yours
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